Njengoba isizini yomkhuhlane isondela, kubalulekile ukubheka izinzuzo zokuhlolelwa umkhuhlane. Umkhuhlane isifo sokuphefumula esithathelwa kakhulu esibangelwa amagciwane omkhuhlane. Kungadala ukugula okunzima futhi kungahle kuholele nasekufeni noma ekufeni. Ukuthola ukuhlolwa komkhuhlane kungasiza ekutholweni nasekwelashweni kusenesikhathi, kuvikele ukusakazeka kwaleli gciwane kwabanye, futhi uzivikele wena kanye nabathandekayo bakho emkhuhlane.

Enye yezinzuzo ezinkulu zokuthola ukuhlolwa komkhuhlane ukuxilongwa kusenesikhathi. Ukuhlolwa kungasho ukuthi uma unomkhuhlane noma okunye ukugula okuphefumula. Lokhu kusiza ukwelashwa okufika ngesikhathi, okusheshise ukululama futhi kunciphise ubungozi bezinkinga.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthola ukuhlolwa komkhuhlane kungasiza ukuvikela ukwanda kwaleli gciwane. Uma unomkhuhlane, ukwazi isimo sakho kungakusiza ukuthi uthathe izinyathelo zokuphepha ezidingekayo ukuze ugweme ukusakaza leli gciwane kwabanye. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma uxhumana nabantu abasengozini enkulu, njengezingane ezincane, asebekhulile, noma abantu abanamasosha omzimba abuthaka.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukutholwa umkhuhlane kungasiza ukuvikela wena kanye nabathandekayo bakho. Ngokwazi isimo sakho somkhuhlane, ungathatha izinyathelo ezifanele ukuvikela ukusakazeka kwaleli gciwane, njengokuhlala ekhaya kusuka emsebenzini noma esikoleni, ekwenzeni inhlanzeko enhle, nokugoma.

Ngokufundwa, ukutholwa umkhuhlane kubalulekile ekutholweni kusenesikhathi, kuvinjelwe ukusakazeka kwaleli gciwane, nokuzivikela wena kanye nabathandekayo bakho. Uma ubhekene nezimpawu ezifana nomkhuhlane, njengomkhuhlane, ukukhwehlela, umphimbo obuhlungu, ukukhathazeka komzimba nokukhathala, kubalulekile ukubheka ukuthola ukuhlolwa komkhuhlane. Ngokuthatha izinyathelo ezisebenzayo ukuvikela umkhuhlane, ungasiza ekunciphiseni umthelela waleli gciwane kuwe kanye nomphakathi wakho.