Njengoko ixesha lomkhuhlane lisondela, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela inzuzo yokuvavanyelwa umkhuhlane. Umkhuhlane sisifo sokuphefumla esosulelayo kakhulu esibangelwa ziintsholongwane zomkhuhlane. Inokubangela isigulo esingephi okanye esiqatha kwaye inokukhokelela esibhedlele okanye ekufeni. Ukufumana uvavanyo lomkhuhlane kunokunceda ekuxilongeni kwangoko kunye nonyango, kuthintele ukusasazeka kwentsholongwane kwabanye, kwaye uzikhusele wena kunye nabo ubathandayo kumkhuhlane.

Olunye lolona ncedo luphambili lokufumana uvavanyo lomkhuhlane kukuxilongwa kwangoko. Uvavanyo luyakwazi ukubona ukuba unomkhuhlane okanye esinye isigulo sokuphefumla. Oku kuququzelela unyango olufike ngexesha, olukhawuleza ukubuyiswa kunye nokunciphisa umngcipheko weengxaki.

Ukongeza, uvavanyo lomkhuhlane lunokunceda ukuthintela ukusasazeka kwale ntsholongwane. Ukuba unomkhuhlane, ukwazi isimo sakho kungakunceda ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okhuseleko ayimfuneko ukuze uphephe ukusasazeka kwale ntsholongwane kwabanye. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba unxibelelana ngokusondeleyo nabantu abasengozini enkulu, njengabantwana abancinci, abantu abadala, okanye abantu abanamajoni omzimba abuthathaka.

Ukongeza, ukuvavanyelwa umkhuhlane kunokukunceda ukhusele wena kunye nabo ubathandayo. Ngokuyazi imeko yakho yomkhuhlane, unokuthabatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo okuthintela ukusasazeka kwale ntsholongwane, njengokuhlala ekhaya ungahambi emsebenzini okanye esikolweni, ukuqhelisela ucoceko, nokugonywa.

Ngamafutshane, ukuvavanyelwa umkhuhlane kubalulekile ukuxilongwa kwangoko, ukuthintela ukusasazeka kwentsholongwane, kunye nokuzikhusela wena kunye nabo ubathandayo. Ukuba uneempawu ezinjengomkhuhlane, ezinjengomkhuhlane, ukhohlokhohlo, umqala obuhlungu, umzimba obuhlungu, kunye nokudinwa, kubalulekile ukuba ucinge ngokufumana uvavanyo lomkhuhlane. Ngokuthatha amanyathelo abonakalayo okuthintela umkhuhlane, unokunceda ukunciphisa ifuthe lentsholongwane kuwe nakuluntu lwakho.